Archive for 2009

The Over-Thinking It Trap

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Don has a brilliant mind and loves to keep it thinking.

One of my Inner Circle members, he recently booked a private coaching session to strategize the marketing of a new online business for freelance writers (he’s freelanced for years).

Not five minutes into our conversation, Don was heavily into explaining arcane keyword research tips he’d picked up at a workshop, tossing around terms like long-tail and bid management software and content network…

When he paused for breath, I asked him to help me out by backing up for a minute to answer a few questions.

Did he have his blog or website launched? Well, not yet.

Did he know what his keywords were? Some, maybe, but he needed to do more research.

What exactly was he going to sell? Well he had several options about that and hadn’t quite made up his mind.

I suggested that it was time to stop analyzing and take action on the basics of creating an online business.

And that step one would be to determine an initial set of keywords and launch a simple website or blog that could begin to build him a prospect list.

This straightforward suggestion silenced Don. After a moment he told me he didn’t think he was ready.

When I asked what would ready feel like, he said: “I would be certain about what I’m doing.”

That desire to have certainty before taking action is what keeps most of us trapped in over-thinking. The hours, days, months and years go by, and at best our business crawls forward.

At worst we have no business.

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Business Hit A Roadblock? Here’s what to do

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Does your business send you more stop signs and roadblocks than green lights?

One of the Law of Attraction myths I particularly love to bust goes like this: “My life will be totally under control once I master the Law of Attraction.”

Yeah, right!

Mastery and control are not the same thing.

Roadblocks give you the opportunity to release control and step into mastery.

Control looks like this. Something goes wrong in your business (maybe a lot of things go wrong), and you decide “I’m not meant to have this.” Or: “The universe is telling me this isn’t the direction.” Or: “This is too hard, I give up!”

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No One Orders A Dessert They Don’t Like

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When you order dessert at a restaurant, you always order something you like. While you might skip the whipped cream to save some calories, you’d never order the rhubarb pie if you didn’t really want it.

Why, then, do you keep ordering what you don’t like from the Menu of the Universe?

Each person and circumstance in your life — no matter how uncomfortable — shows up because you ordered it through your vibration, and Law of Attraction had no choice but to deliver it.

The reason you may not believe me is this: you aren’t consciously aware of what you’re ordering. Few people are.

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Should you tell the Law of Attraction how you want it?

Got a burning Law of Attraction question? Send it to me! Consultant and coach Tom Rausch (www.yourpurposeguide.com) asks:

Some LoA experts advise not to dictate how our intentions should be delivered to us. They say we should leave the how of manifesting our desire to the universe, that our job is to be specific about what we want — not how we want it to come to us.

Others emphasize the importance of pursuing our desires with purposeful action and advise their clients to pursue smart goals that get specific about how.

Can you clear up this seeming inconsistency?

Read my answer

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If Money Were A Person

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If you want money and it’s not coming to you, pause right now, close your eyes and pretend that money is a person standing in front of you.

I know it sounds ridiculous but do it anyway. Take a deep breath or two and allow money to appear in your mind’s eye. It’s perfectly fine if you feel like you are making it up. There… what do you see?

The first time I tried this, during a period in my life when money seemed hard to get, money appeared in my mind as an angry, scowling, square-shaped man, arms crossed, staring down at me.

No wonder I wasn’t receiving enough money — this man obviously didn’t approve of me!

Once you see for yourself what your picture of money is, you’ll have insight into why you have the relationship with it that you do. Continue Reading »

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