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When you order dessert at a restaurant, you always order something you like. While you might skip the whipped cream to save some calories, you’d never order the rhubarb pie if you didn’t really want it.

Why, then, do you keep ordering what you don’t like from the Menu of the Universe?

Each person and circumstance in your life — no matter how uncomfortable — shows up because you ordered it through your vibration, and Law of Attraction had no choice but to deliver it.

The reason you may not believe me is this: you aren’t consciously aware of what you’re ordering. Few people are.

It’s not always easy to accept that we’re vibrational matches to what we clearly do not want: a shortage of money, an illness, a difficult relationship. But denying our vibrational resonance to the situation only binds us to it more strongly.

If you can accept that whatever is in your life right now is a vibrational match to you, you’ve made a huge first step in using the circumstances you don’t like as springboards to something better.

Accepting the vibrational match is not about blaming yourself. There’s no benefit whatsoever to self-condemnation.

What we’re talking about here is a simple shift, from pushing against what’s upsetting you to allowing it to be for now.

You might say:

“I’m willing to accept that my vibration is what keeps me bound to this situation. Even though I don’t know how this vibrational match happened, and I have no idea what to do about it right this minute, I believe that I live in an attraction-based universe. Therefore, whatever is in my life must be a match to my vibration.”

Although it can be anything from mildly annoying to painfully humiliating to admit our own vibrational participation in circumstances we don’t like, accepting this is the first step in reclaiming our power.

Acceptance is a way of pausing, clearing the slate, and starting afresh:

OK, universe, I accept that right now I am a vibrational match to these stale oatmeal cookies. But I declare that what I truly prefer to eat is the key lime pie.

The simple act of accepting what has happened and choosing again sets you on a new vibrational course.

Acceptance is a small step — so small that many people would dismiss it as too insignificant to matter. Yet, it is the entire key to shedding the resistance that binds you.

Acceptance and choosing again re-align you with the universal flow that carries you toward all you’ve been asking for.

Till next time, here’s to your successful self employment!

Andrea

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